I’ve seen the demonstration more than once. A glass
container is set on a counter. First, it is filled with stones. The speaker
asks if the container is full. Everyone nods. Then, the speaker fills the empty
spaces left by the stones in the container with pebbles. Again, the question if
the container is now full. Everyone nods again. Then the empty space in the
container is filled with sand. Full? Nods. Then the speaker pours water into
the container (now it really is full.) This demonstration has always stuck with
me as an excellent example of one’s real capacity.
We are all containers just like the example. The question is
how full are you? Are you simply full of stones and pebbles, or have you
reached the sand yet. Can you even imagine the water? Of course we are all over
scheduled and over whelmed by our lives. But does that mean we can’t handle
just a little more? What if we practiced better time management? What if we
began to say no to the things that really don’t matter, and freed up more time
for the things that really do matter? What if we actually took time off?
One of the
keys to my capacity as an individual is rest. One of my favorite lyrics from
one of my favorite artists is,
My habit is to get in bed every night by 9:30. Impossible, I
know. But getting regular sleep is a huge benefit to my ability to get things
done. Exercise is important too. I am no fanatic, but I do exercise regularly
and choose my meals carefully. No one can be effective if they are exhausted.
Sometimes you just have to chillax.
Maybe I am unique. Clearly I am blessed with an innate
enthusiasm for life, and teaching specifically, that I cannot take credit for
because I cannot identify where it originates within me. What I can do is share
what I have learned in the successful (and not so successful) areas of my life.
That’s one reason I love teaching: sharing what I know works for me. So fill up
your containers to the maximum capacity, then rest. Discharge the stone, pebbles,
sand, and water as efficiently as you can, then repeat the process. Always enjoy
the benefits of your efforts.
Thanks for the clear reminder of what matters. I love that line, "My rest is a weapon against the oppression of mans obsession to control things.” Who is it from?
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Great post. I have found the value of regular sleep cannot be overstated. Maybe it's increasing age or the new career, but getting by on just a few hours and still being in peak readiness for the entire day is impossible; I really can't give students my best if I'm not in bed with a book by 9.
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